Sunday, September 2, 2007

Classism and the "Water Ingathering."

Last week I told the youth in the Religious Education program I teach on Sunday at the Unitarian Universalist congregation I work at that they had to attend the Sunday program today -- Water Ingathering. The Water Ingathering is where people come up and add water to a fountain. At my congregation they come up and talk about where they went this summer, or bring water from their home. The custom has potential to have some significance. However, what it seems to be now is an opportunity for some people to be "socially active" and talk about how much we need to conserve water and how we are too privileged in this country. Other people use it as an opportunity to share with the rest of the congregation all the nice places there were able to afford to visit on vacation throughout the summer. Alaska is so beautiful in the summer. Niagra Falls is such a wonderful place. Oh, Colorado is suffering from a drought, and so is Michigan.

I sat back and thought, "What if you are too poor to take cruises to Alaska, or go to the mountains in Colorado and then sojourn over to Michigan, blah, blah, blah." What might have been more meaningful would be for people to make a water offering in honor of something or someone. Or perhaps to share with the rest of the congregation a piece of wisdom they learned over the summer.

Something else the congregation could try is a water communion ceremony where we gather water (and we would have to make sure it is all potable) together and then charge the water with energy, through a song or intention, so that everyone in the world will "never thirst." Something like this I could really get into, and I facilitated such a ritual at Midwest Leadership School (a UU week long leadership program). What I sat through at my congregation today was the most excruciating program I think I've attended at said congregation. I typically don't attend the programs because I'm with the youth or doing "Director of Religious Education" stuff. This was the first full program I've been to in over eight months that I have not had a role in and I was incredibly disappointed. When it was all over I felt bad for the youth who had to endure it, and also felt my own "economic class."

On a different and totally unrelated note, on Saturday I received a letter of acceptance to Methodist Theological School in Ohio, the graduate theological school I applied to this summer. I'll scheduled to start there Fall 2008 contingent upon graduation from Wright State University. I was pretty happy to have that news.

14 comments:

paracletusI said...

This stupid page wouldn't let me on. but, you seem to be saying that this congregation is a lost cause. if so, would seeding another be an alternative?

David Oliver Kling said...

you seem to be saying that this congregation is a lost cause.

I don't know if its a lost cause. There is always hope and I know I wasn't the only person who felt as I did, I have a nice conversation with another long time member who sat in the lobby and didn't attend the program because she knew what it would be like.

if so, would seeding another be an alternative?

I'm not against such a prospect, as an alternative. You have something in mind? I am not interested in burning bridges or causing drama, but certainly a viable alternative would be of interest.

Earthbound Spirit said...

Congratulations on your acceptance into seminary. Best wishes & good luck!

I've preached/created ritual for the water communion service for my home congregation for the past several years. I appreciate your frustration over the "travelogue" that this beautiful ritual can become. I've found that emphasizing the religious aspect helps. Last year, as each person/couple/family came forward and added their water they were asked to only state where it came from - no embellishments. The congregation then had a response that gave thanks for 'water, the source of life.' The whole service had a more sacred feel to it, and this was appreciated.

David Oliver Kling said...

Congratulations on your acceptance into seminary.

Thank you!

I've found that emphasizing the religious aspect helps.

Agreed!! However, my congregation is composed of mostly atheists and the thought of "emphasizing the religious" scares them! This is truly unfortunate.

John Plummer said...

Yeah! Just back from a weekend away, and I'm delighted to hear of your acceptance to seminary! Congratulations!

David Oliver Kling said...

I'm delighted to hear of your acceptance to seminary!

I'm sure your letter of reference taken into consideration, so I have you to thank! It is nice to know where I'm going to be for the next several years.

Nick Kiger said...

So what degree will you pursue?

David Oliver Kling said...

So what degree will you pursue?

I was accepted as a M.Div & MTS dual degree candidate.

Margie McArthur said...

Congratulations on your acceptance into seminary. Best of luck!

I think it would be difficult to be in a congregation composed mostly of atheists. I find it difficult to do our rituals when my atheist son-in-law is present. He is quiet and outwardly respectful, but his beliefs affect the energies.

David Oliver Kling said...

He is quiet and outwardly respectful, but his beliefs affect the energies.

It is difficult. Not having a minister at our congregation is, I believe, a problem. Perhaps a minister could breath some soul into the congregation, because I'm not sure its happening now. Its not ALL bad, there is much good -- but it seems like a soul-less congregation (at least at times like last Sunday).

Dhiroj said...

Ditto the congratulations!

Your congregation must have held their ingathering on Labor Sunday. That's a week early from most. Having read your post before today, I attended the water ceremony at 1st UU Columbus with an eye for classism. I was not disappointed. There was water from India, Victoria Falls in Africa, several places in Europe, several spots in the Caribbean, and all over this continent.

The way they do it, since they're so large, is people bring their water in before service and add it to pitchers at the back of the sanctuary. Some have already sent their stories of where they got it to the senior minister who weaves them into a litany of water and history. He does a good job of injecting justice issues and UU history into this ritual.

But the appalling point was when he read that some of the water had come from room 116 at a Motel 6 near Walt Disney World in Orlando. The congregation actually started laughing! They had no other reaction/response to any other mention of origin. My wife (who was not present at the ceremony) said (when I told her about this incident) "Imagine how the family felt being laughed at when they might have had to save for years to afford to get there." I know what that's like.

Rev. T. Monkey said...

Congrats on the acceptance into seminary!

Dhiroj's last comment reminded me of something that happened at our church in Urbana, IL.

A year ago, one of our more rambunctious lay preachers gave a sermon on Discordian Universalism. He proceeded to parade some sacred UU cows before the congregation and slaughtered quite a few of them in the process. After the service, several congregants wrote angry communiques to the minister, asserting that the service was absolutely worthless. They invariably noted that this judgment was NOT due to their lacking a sense of perspective or humor. After all, one of them noted, when we've had sermons making fun of religious fervor or faith healings, everyone has cracked up.

What that congregant missed (and so many UUs do) is that there are people in their very midst who have experienced religious fervor and/or healings. Because those experiences run against the unspoken creed of secular humanism, though, they are fair game for laughter and mockery.

Try laughing at UU pretensions, though, and you'll find yourself getting a nasty letter from the minister.

Tau Athanasios said...

Because those experiences run against the unspoken creed of secular humanism, though, they are fair game for laughter and mockery.

I have seen that! I just called a woman on her continued attempts to push Atheism down my through. I told her that I have polite for well over a year but that I have decided not to accept her badgering . Of course she had to go and tell folks that I said "I don't respect her being an Atheist!" Yikes. Some people simply refuse to respect others.

Try laughing at UU pretensions, though, and you'll find yourself getting a nasty letter from the minister.

I'm at a congregation with no minister. Almost every Sunday program results in someone feeling offended, or at least that is how it seems.

Robin Edgar said...

That sounds like par for the course for a fair number of U*U "churches".

Try protesting against UU injustices, abuses and hypocrisy and you'll find yourself getting falsely arrested on trumped up criminal charges. Or having a self-described "Citizens' Police Officer" aka a Totalitarian Unitarian harassing you. . .